welcome  to 

Kinky Tantra 

Where kink and Tantra intersect

Join us in exploring where Tantra and Kink intersect—a space that  offers a gateway to presence, connection, and the interplay of energy  and sensation. Though these two practices might seem worlds apart, both  emphasise presence, intentionality, and the exploration of deeper levels  of pleasure, connection, and power.
In this workshop, you’ll be  introduced to a BDSM initiation through the lens of Tantra. We will  engage in practices that help us stay present with ourselves, our  bodies, and our sensations, deepening pleasure and cultivating authentic  connection with ourselves and other,. These principles will then be  applied to the world of Kink, to create sensual intense experiences  while learning to be present with our experience.

WHat to expect

  • A modern day London Dungeon 😈

  • a Queer event for all women, NB, intersex, trans and gender non-conforming humans

  • Games & Connection

  • An inclusive, sx+ environment grounded in consent, where sxual exploration and expression is WELCOME

  • venue is equipped with a kitchen, shower and dressing room

  • The workshop will happen in 2 parts.

    part 1 - will be guided by Alicia and Valentine

    part 2 - will be a free flow format, meaning this is where the guided pratices end and where you are free to play explore, put into practice what your have learned,

During the guided part of the workshop we will explore:

Consent and Boundaries

Awareness and Presence: Learn tantric techniques to stay fully present with yourself, your body, and your sensations, and apply these to kink dynamics for heightened awareness and connection.

Energy Exchange: Explore the energetic flow of life force within Tantra and how it aligns with the power exchange central to BDSM

Breathwork and Body Awareness: Use breath as a tool to amplify pleasure, navigate intensity, and deepen your experience of sensation

Ritual and Intentionality: Explore the power of a collective ritual weaving Tantric and Kinky practices. Together, we will create a conscious container for exploration, connection, and play.

Kink practices infused with Tantric attunement

WHos it for

  • This is a queer-centered space for people of marginalized genders, including women, trans, and nonbinary folks. Cis men are kindly asked not to attend

WHat to Bring

  • Comfortable clothing for movement and sitting, and anything you feel powerful, kinky in!

  • Snacks and food to share with the group

  • Toys, props, whips, ropes, anything you might want to play with

event details:

Date & Time:  2nd April 6:00pm - 11pm. Please be on time, not entry later than 6:20pm.



Solo or Partnered:  singles, partners, groups welcome (everyone needs a ticket)


Location: East London, venue address sent out closer to the time

in collaboration with :

Valentine Bordet (she/her).

“ I'm a somatic sexologist, feminist activist, social designer, performer and artist. All of these experiences feed into creating sessions that allow us to explore our pleasure! I'm a pleasure workshop facilitator and founder of Self-Pleasure Club.

I've created SPC out of my own realisation of the lack of spaces and resources to talk about sexuality for marginalised groups and the many stigmas that still surround it. “

@self.pleasure.club

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